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Sunday, September 13, 2009

The Waiting Begins...

Things are started...We sent in the first fees for the adoption and tomorrow morning I will send in the paperwork for the home study.  We couldn't have done it without help from all of you!  And thanks to Liz and Dwayne for giving us so much stuff to sell at the yard sale!  That was a nice surprise today, Liz!  There are many ways to help.  Each is as important as the next.  I know the time that goes into cleaning out a house and delivering it to someone else.  It is a blessing, as is saying a prayer when someone comes to your mind.  Thank you all!


So now as I wait for the next step, more of the same....I continue reading everything I can about parenting an adoptive child, a deaf child, and even Chinese culture.  I am committed to educating myself in every possible way.  And you know what?  It's making me a better mom in the process, because I am applying some of it to Alex, Ava Grace and Nicholas.  


Nicholas asked me yesterday, "Mommy, when are you going to get Chen Chen?"  I replied, 'Well, mommy has to save a little more money first'.  For a moment, he had the inquisitive look on his face that toddlers give when they process data into their little brains. Then his wrinkled brow suddenly lifted into a look disbelief and he said "Nah!!!!!  You're teasing me!!!!", as if he thought I was trying to tell him I had to buy Chen chen from Wal-mart or something.  I love this age!!  Kids are so funny!


Please continue to pray for us if you feel led to.  We really could use it!!!



2 comments:

ANDREA said...

HI SHANNON... IT'S ANDREA FROM THE SALON. I RUSHED HOME TO READ YOUR BLOG... I AM ON A MISSION TO HELP YOUR FAMILY! I LOOKED UP A COUPLE WEBSITES THAT MIGHT HELP YOU OUT. THE FIRST WEBSITE TALKS MOSTLY ABOUT TAX CREDITS (I WASN'T SURE IF YOU WERE MADE AWARE OF THIS) http://tax-credit.adoption.com/
THE NEXT WEBITE HAS INFO ABOUT GRANTS, FUNDRAISERS, ETC. CHECK OUT THE SECTION TITLED CHINA CARE FOUNDATION. ***
http://www.affordingadoption.com/grants.php
THIS WEBSITE IS MOSTLY ABOUT FINANCING THE ADOPTION. THERE ARE NOW LOW INTEREST LOANS THAT ARE PROVIDED FOR ADOPTIONS. THE SECTION APFUSA:ADOPTION FINANCING.COM TAKES YOU TO A WEBSITE WITH AN ONLINE APPLICATION FOR ADOPTION LOANS.
I WAS ALSO THINKING ABOUT THE CUT-A-THON. YOU SHOULD ALSO HAVE A BAKE SALE OUTSIDE AND/OR YARD SALE TYPE THING. JUST AN IDEA. I ALSO READ ON A WEBSITE ABOUT A WOMAN WHO HAD PAMPERED CHEF PARTIES AND HAD EACH GUEST DONATE $10. JUST ANOTHER IDEA THAT COULD BRING IN A FEW EXTRA $'S. I KNOW SOMEONE WHO DOES SPA PARTIES. THAT WOULD BE A FUN IDEA FOR A BUNCH OF GIRLS AND HAVE DONATIONS MADE... I COULD GO ON AND ON. ANYHOW, I HOPE THESE WEBSITES HELP. I AM GOING TO CALL MY MOTHER-IN-LAW AND ASK HER IF SHE HAS AN RESOURCES/IDEAS TO HELP. SHE ADOPTED HER DAUGHTER FROM CHINA AND IS EXTREMELY INVOLVED WITH THE ADOPTION COMMUNITY. MOST OF MY SISTER-IN-LAWS FRIENDS ARE ADOPTED FROM CHINA AS WELL. OK- I WILL STOP RAMBLING NOW!!! ANYTHING I CAN POSSIBLY HELP YOU WITH, LET ME KNOW. - AND BY THE WAY- THANKS FOR MAKING ME CRY!!!!

Shannon said...

AWW!! You are so sweet to go through all of that trouble!!! Thank you!!!! I'll check it out!

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